Serving clients virtually and across Arizona

Trauma-informed coaching for individuals and couples seeking deeper connection

Supporting individuals and couples navigating emotionally complex relationships with clarity, confidence, and care.

Feel heard, supported, and more in control of your emotional life.

You've tried so hard to make things work. Read the books. Maybe even tried therapy. But something still feels stuck, like you're working twice as hard for half the connection.

Your patterns make sense. Your nervous system is doing exactly what it learned to do to keep you safe. With the right support, the kind that actually understands trauma and attachment, things can feel different.

Finding Joy and Clarity exists because real transformation doesn't come from quick fixes. It comes from understanding the deeper why behind your patterns and learning to show up differently.

You've found your place if...

You're exhausted from being the only one doing the emotional work in your relationships

Childhood wounds or trauma keep showing up in your adult life through anxiety, people-pleasing, or relationship struggles

You recognize your patterns but feel stuck in changing them because knowing what's wrong isn't enough to make it different

You're ready to stop performing and start actually healing instead of pretending everything's fine when it's not

Whatever brought you here, know this: Change is possible. No, it's not easy. But you don't have to do it alone.

For those ready to understand their patterns, regulate their nervous system, and show up differently in all their relationships.

Couples Coaching

When disconnection has become the norm and you're both ready to break the cycle with accountability, compassion, and real tools for repair.

Coming Soon: Groups & Digital Resources

Accessible ways to begin or deepen your healing journey.

Coaching that matches your needs

Individual Coaching

Meet your coaches

Hi there, we're Calli and Clint

partners in life for over 20 years, both trained therapists with MSWs and LMSWs, and humans who've done our own deep healing work. We created Finding Joy and Clarity because we needed something that didn't exist yet: coaching that's trauma-informed, relationally focused, and actually understands what it's like to heal from the inside out.

As trauma survivors ourselves, we've walked the path. We know what it takes, what to expect, and how to show up for others in it. Between us, we bring lived experience with trauma and recovery, professional training without the clinical coldness, a balance of compassion and accountability, and real understanding of what it takes to change.

We're not here to fix you because you're not broken. We're here to walk alongside you as you remember who you are beneath all the armor. This work is deeply personal to us. We're not just building a business, we're creating the space we wish we'd had when we were stuck, disconnected, and trying to make sense of our own patterns.

Feel heard, supported, and more in control of your emotional life.

Starting this work can feel overwhelming. Here's what you can expect:

  • No judgment, ever. Just a safe, confidential space where you can show up exactly as you are

  • Go at your own pace with support that meets you where you are, not where you think you should be

  • Real tools you can use immediately with practical ways to regulate your nervous system and feel different

Start your coaching journey

You don’t have to figure it all out on your own. Whether you’re ready to dive into coaching or simply want to talk through your next steps, I’m here when you’re ready.